For years I’ve been such a control-freak and I’ve written about it openly in past blog posts. If our world has shown me anything lately it’s that I’m learning I have little control over much.
Sure I can control my choices, my attitude and my response, but apart from that I have no say.
But God.
He is fully prepared. All-knowing. Powerful. The perfecter of control.
Jeremiah 29:11 says, ‘For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.’
The real truth is that ultimately God has and is in control over every single little detail and part of life, and I’m actually finding such peace in seeing that I have control over very few things. Trying to take control of “things” or areas of life is exhausting. The sobering part of this is that in realizing I have minimal control, it’s forcing me to rely heavily on Jesus — knowing, trusting and believing that He has got absolutely everything in His hands, and in His care and His perfect control.
I’ve had a lot of people tell me lately that they’re living in fear, and I (myself) just haven’t been. But I think it’s because I’ve been drawing my strength from the Lord by reading His word and through prayer and reading devotions. I’m certainly frustrated by the circumstances of our world but it’s not causing me fear or anxiety.
It may seem like God is dragging His feet during these times but scripture shows that God’s not worried about time. His “concern” is that we surrender and become obedient. It’s not our right to groan about His timing. He’s been faithful throughout Bible history, He has in the years since and will continue to.
When we become impatient regarding God’s timing we can hold onto these scriptures:
Psalm 90:4 ‘For you, a thousand years are as a passing day, as brief as a few night hours.’
Hebrews 13:8 ‘Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.’
Romans 8:28 ‘And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose.’
If there is change happening, it’s within us — God is simply unchanging and He is faithful.
For a recovering control-freak all of these scripture-truths are good news as I lean into my faith — trusting in God’s flawless plans more than ever.
May any changing happening be for the better, drawing us nearer to Him.
This is very encouraging Alicia, thank you! For those of us with control-freak tendencies, giving up control is especially difficult. But when I realize I am holding out as opposed to letting the Creator of the universe lead me on, I feel pretty dumb. Trust is something that is built over time. God has been building it for eternity (just a little longer than I’ve been around!) and His Scriptures are full of encouragement to simply trust Him more fully as you have shown. That is where the peace comes from, and I’m sure that is why you have not been feeling scared.
Blessings and I look forward to ‘seeing’ you Saturday!
Pastor Chuck
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Yes so well said…it really makes sense feeling peace because I believe in the power of scripture! Hoping more people can grab hold of that truth found in Him!!
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Amen, Alicia, well said! Walking by faith and not by sight is not always easy, that’s for sure. Thank God for His grace as He sees us through! God bless!
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Absolutely!! Thanks for reading!!
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Great message Ali. ❤ Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for reading! I hope you are well!!
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Yes and amen. Thank you Alicia. I’m so glad He’s in control!!
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Me too!! Thanks for reading Viv!! Hope you are feeling well!!
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I love what you said: “If there is change happening, it’s within us — God is simply unchanging and He is faithful.” When I have fear and am unsettled, it’s not because God has changed but because I have changed. Thank you so much for that, Alicia! God is the same yesterday, today and FOREVER!! Blessings, my friend!
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Yes it’s just such a beautiful blessing that the One who spoke everything into existence is our one and only stable, reliable, trustworthy source!! Amazing!
Thanks for reading Patty!!
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The only thing I can control is my attitude. That was a long difficult lesson for me.
How are you little sister?
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Good!! Ready for the weekend!! Too much school work😅
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This is a beautiful and encouraging post. The world around us has been scary lately. But we can still have peace in our hearts, as we cling to the Prince of Peace. ❤
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Amen!! So thankful for my faith!! Thanks for reading Bridget!
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I have always loved, and leaned on, the mental visual of how nothing in our lives does not go through the filter of His hands. Love your ongoing openness, Alicia. God’s grip – Alan
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That’s so true!❤️it’s in His hands!!
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What a wonderful reminder that God is in control and everything is on HIS timing. There are days when I think I just can’t wait any longer for the “normal” to come back, but then I have to remind myself that God has something amazing for us if we’re just patient.
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Yes good way to put it!! I’ve been anticipating that ‘something amazing’…
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As someone who definitely has control-freak tendencies, I can certainly relate to this. This past year has been a challenge for me, big time!
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Yes I think everyone could attest to that in one way or another!
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Thanks so much reading and reblogging! May your week be blessed!❤️
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you convey the peace from God in this post. Thank you.
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Thank you for reading, it’s such a blessing to feel His peace!❤️
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Indeed, there is peace in realizing we have control over very few things, and Someone much wiser and stronger hold the reins on the universe. Praise God He is ALWAYS faithful to His people no matter what circumstances we may have to face (Hebrews 10:23).
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Amen!! Such good truth!❤️
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I’m reminded, after looking up the verse you referenced from Hebrews that ‘He will never leave nor forsake us.’
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Such wonderful comfort in those words!
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Yes definitely!!❤️
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Very encouraging truth
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Thanks so much for reading!! Have an amazing weekend!!
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I’m glad I came across your blog. Thanks for sharing.
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Oh good!! Thanks so much for stopping by❤️
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