This past month, in my fourth and fifth grade Sunday school class, I’ve been working through a lesson on the topic of joy with the kids. They’ve shared about circumstances that seem unfair and yet they can pinpoint how joy can be found in that situation nevertheless.
For example when a friend breaks a promise, doesn’t keep their word, and let’s us down we can choose to find joy in the fact that God always keeps His promises. He’s the author of the Living Word. And He will never let us down; Psalm 54:4 reminds us that ‘God is our helper and the upholder of our lives.’ People are imperfect and fallible, but when we consider our relationships we can find joy in the truth that God is always trustworthy and capable with us.
Joy, simply put, is finding a way to be happy even when things don’t go your way. As a Christian that type of joy is found through our faith and relationship in Christ.
This time of year we see the word joy displayed on ornaments and Christmas decor, we hear it belting from department store speakers as we shop, or we sing it out during worship time in our churches. If Christmas were labeled with an emotion, joy would be of the top choices. It’s a word people often times associate with, or even accentuate on, during the Christmas season; however our soul can feel disconnected from the feeling of joy if our lives aren’t instep with God’s will — and honestly, the bottom line is that joy should surround our lives year-round.
Worldly desires and material possessions such as Christmas gifts provide us with temporary pleasure and can cause us to feel happy for a short amount of time. But maintaining a healthy relationship with Jesus each day brings about a lasting rush of inner calmness that settles over us with a blessing of pure certainty and peace and is ultimately defined as true JOY.
Months after the tree is down, joy is the only gift that shouldn’t have lost its luster; it’s the one gift that keeps on giving. The best part is we can take it anywhere and everywhere and when people question us about the joy we wear, not only across our faces, but the joy they notice within our hearts, we get the opportunity to open up and share the Christmas story and the gospel.
Beautiful right?
If joy feels absent, foreign, or far from your feelings dig into God’s word, study scripture on the topic of joy, and humbly ask God for a fresh start at a life filled with unending joy.
…and take it from my wise fourth and fifth grade Sunday school class, ‘just because you may be going through a hard time doesn’t mean joy has to elude you, God can use that trial to produce perseverance and maturity in Him and that is definitely something to celebrate joyfully about.’
Applicable verses:
Always be joyful because you belong to the Lord. I will say it again. Be joyful. -Philippians 4:4
Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. -James 1:2-4
Smart kids! 😊
True joy comes from God’s Spirit in us. Joyful feelings come from believing His truth. Could it be that lack of that feeling denotes forgetting the truth and drifting into believing the lies? “Consider” in James 1 takes an act of the will to choose joy by choosing God’s truth. So, like you said, digging into the word and praying are the place to start! 😊
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Yup! And I know I have lacked joy at times and looking back it’s those times that I haven’t remained in his word and in prayer
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Yes, you’re right!
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One of favorite scripture is Jn 14:27 which reminds me that joy is found in my relationship with the Lord. God bless you my friend, love this post
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Ahh yes!! I had to look up that verse after I read your comment! Such a good verse, I actually haven’t come across that one in a really long time!! Thanks for the reminder❤️ Merry Christmas to you friend and thanks for reading!
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Merry Christmas my friend
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I think of Psalm 51- restore to me the joy of your salvation. If we get to a place of not having joy, the first place to return is our salvation in Jesus 🙂
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You’re right, I love that!!
I’m going to read in Psalm 51 this morning now! Thank you!!
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Amen to this post in many way. I am thankful that we can experience the joy of Christmas everyday of our lives. what a blessing!
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Yes well said!!❤️
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Beautifully written, Ali. I’m actually on a blogging break, but I’ve popped on a couple times to read posts. When I’m not feeling great I so need to read an uplifting perspective, so thanks for sharing. I have a totally different take on the gift that keeps on giving! Lol. I’ll share it in January. You know Andrew and I, we’re a bit quirky… (This is actually starting to make me feel a bit self conscious. I may email you sometime to clear my head.)
Your new pics are all so beautiful. I love your Gravatar photo too. 😊 Have a Merry Christmas!
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Yes definitely email if you’d like!!❤️ I knew you were on a break because I’d read it in one of your last posts. I’m behind on reading posts from fellow bloggers, I just can’t seem to get a good schedule going and get something figured out as far as a routine for reading and then writing…it really bums out..so if you have any suggestions.
I’m looking forward to hearing from you soon!!! Stay well!! ❤️ ya!!
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Love this. We can experience real joy all the time if we stay “connected to the vine”!
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Yes so true!!!❤️
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